You ruined Thanksgiving!

NOT1462884_10151776343336545_119739668_nNovember 26, 2015 – There’s an ongoing joke in my family that if the slightest thing goes wrong anytime on December 25, whether it involves dropping a fork on the floor, bumping into someone’s chair, or having your cell phone ring during dinner, the person responsible is told, “Great, now you ruined Christmas.”

That same message should go out to the retailers across the country regarding Thanksgiving, the very ones who make their employees to work on a day that should be spent with family and friends. Retailers wouldn’t do this if people didn’t shop. This is supposed to be a non-commercial holiday!

If you make it through the turkey and pumpkin pie without leaving the dinner table to shop, I applaud you. It may not be easy since many retailers have done everything in their power to lure you away from the family table (and the Trivial Pursuit tournament that follows dinner in my family) to snag the deals they claim to offer. What prompts people to camp outside of stores, or worse yet, shop on Thanksgiving, is beyond me.

It has been estimated 195 million Americans make Black Friday part of their holiday tradition. Isn’t that enough? The problem is retailers get greedier each year. I haven’t seen a bargain yet that would make me change my mind about shopping on Black Friday let alone Thanksgiving.

It you’re tempted to shop today, think about this. It’s been reported in several publications in recent years (including The Wall Street Journal) that Thanksgiving or Black Friday isn’t necessarily the best time to shop, anyway. The best deals often come deeper in December, especially if holiday sales start to slump.

That is something a retailer is never going to tell you.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Do we need a little Christmas?

we-need-a-little-christmasNovember 23, 2015 – Pope Francis shared an opinion last week that may make some of us want to cry into our figgy pudding.

“Christmas festivities will seem empty in a world which has chosen war and hate,” he said. “Christmas is a charade this year because the whole world is at war.”

Of course, he’s not saying that Christmas is a charade in the religious sense, but rather because we celebrate the season and sing songs about joy and peace. That may seem a bit hypocritical considering the violence of the last few weeks and cries of hatred and racism around our country and the world. No doubt, it is a terrible time in history.

Pope Francis seems like a kind man who speaks from his heart. He earned the title the people’s Pope because he is filled with empathy for every citizen on this planet. Someone who is as sensitive and as caring as he seems could easily believe it is wrong to partake in the season’s festivities. It brings to mind something I think of often, that a mother is only as happy as her most unhappy child. I can relate to that.

Still, tragedy at Christmas isn’t anything new. As long as humans have existed there has been violence, war and tragedy both natural and man-made. Yet, we have always celebrated Christmas because it symbolizes hope. Without sounding too much like a Hallmark movie, we need all the hope we can get, and we need that special feeling only Christmas can bring.

There will always be tragedy and violence in the world because there has never been peace on earth. Call me shallow, but I for one need Christmas to help me believe that some day there will be.

A Charming Start to the Holiday Season

Grand-Illumination-Celebration-Peddlers-Village-680uwNovember 19, 2015 – Thanksgiving may be a week away, but if you live in the Philadelphia/Bucks County area, you can kick off the season tomorrow night at the Grand Illumination Celebration at Peddler’s Village.

The annual lighting event takes place the Friday before Thanksgiving and features more illumination than you can imagine. This year, the lights switch on at 6:15 p.m. and stay lit until 10 p.m. Admission and parking are free, although the crowds can be overwhelming the first night and parking can be hard to find. The good news, Peddler’s Village remains lit through the holidays so you’ll have plenty of time to wallow in its charm.

If you don’t live in the area, make a turkey sandwich and kick-start the season with a great holiday movie. Here are a few Thanksgiving themed favorites:

Pieces of April – A quirky film that stars Katie Holmes fresh from her Dawson’s Creek days, Patricia Clarkston and Oliver Platt. The storyline portrays a family coming together for Thanksgiving dinner despite their many differences. This definitely isn’t a sweet portrayal of the holidays, but rather a realistic view of an urban family at Thanksgiving.

Hannah and Her Sisters – Yes, it’s a little weird to see Woody Allen and Mia Farrow together, but they did make a few good films together. The storyline takes place between two Thanksgiving holidays and focuses on family so it counts as a holiday classic.

Home for the Holidays – Another quirky comedy drama about visiting the family at Thanksgiving. The all-star cast features Holly Hunter, Robert Downey Jr., Claire Danes, Charles Durning, Dylan McDermott and Ann Bancroft. Jodie Foster directed this film that boldly suggests that all family holidays are something we just have to suffer through.

A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving – Over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s house we go… This holiday classic has Charlie Brown serving an untraditional dinner to his friends – and struggling through it as usual – as the true meaning of Thanksgiving comes to light.

Planes Trains and Automobiles –It’s the best Thanksgiving movie of all time! John Candy and Steve Martin star as two men who are forced to travel home together for the holiday. It’s comedy at its finest but it will also tug at your heart strings, too the way good holiday movies always do.

1000 on the Fifth

1000November 10, 2015 – It’s official. It took a little finagling to make this happen, but my 1000th blog post falls on the same day as my fifth anniversary with WordPress.

I started this journey on November 10, 2010 to give me something to focus while I was one of the 10 percent unemployed. Back then, on that chilly November morning, I clicked the publish button to go live, and entered the blogsphere with a personal goal to keep going as long as it was fun.

Over the past five years, I’ve also gathered about 950 followers – which still blows me away – and nearly 150,000 views with 5,000 comments. The most popular post, The Death of Boxerjam, from February 14, 2014, and the follow up, The Reincarnation of Boxerjam, from July 11, 2014, attracted about 150 of those comments, and even lead to a conversation with the owners and programmers of The good news is that they have heard the cries of people who responded and are working hard to create a new series of games that will appeal to the same audience through venues on iTunes, Google Play, Amazon, Facebook, and the website

With millions of blogs out there, I am amazed that you find me, but when you do and you join in the conversation, it makes it all worthwhile.

Thank you!